it had been a while since i had the chance to relax and go out with the girlies so we planned dinner and dancing and all i can say is we partied like rock stars… the night started at dinner…chuckie joined us for some good old fashion spanish food at sofrito…if you haven’t been there yet, what are you waiting for…the food and service is wonderful…just thinking about it is making me hungry now…we enjoyed a fantabulous dinner that consisted of yummy food, terrific conversation and non stop  laughter that lasted almost three hours.  once we filled our bellies, we decided to digest our food by going to guesthouse and dancing the night away.after 15 minutes of trying to catch a cab in the cold we got to the club and were treated like VIPs from the moment we stepped on the curb.  we skipped the line, walked by security, and got escorted into the club passed the mandatory coatcheck.soon we were given a bottle and greeted by many friendly faces.  the music was making the club jump and we were enjoying every moment.  paparazzi was out and we had our pictures taken everywhere. a picture says a thousand words and the pictures from that night prove that it was just what the doctor ordered.  can’t wait to do it again.   til next time…besos babe! 

i told myself that i wouldn’t write until i had something to say…deja vu… i didn’t realize i had anything to write tonight until the computer called me and beckoned for me to release a lil of what is in my head and heart…i promised myself coming into 2008 that this year would be different.  i said i would be more true to myself.  i would begin putting my needs and desires before everyone else’s.  unfortunately, the year hasn’t started that way.   i’ve spent the beginning of the year wondering how to make the lives of other’s a bit easier and less stressful.  that ends with this month.  i’m finally realizing that i can’t keep taking care of everyone else if i don’t take care of me.  i told my mom today that i’m tired of being the wall that holds everyone else up because i don’t have anyone holding me up. don’t get me wrong. life is beautiful.  i am blessed beyond my wildest dreams and  can’t imagine being bestowed with anything better but that doesn’t mean that i don’t need support just like everyone else.  i’m at a crossroads.  figuring which way i go to get to the rest of my life.  my path seems to be clear and filled with adventures waiting to be taken on.  just tonight i planned and booked a vacation.  it’s only for 3 days but it will be 3 beautiful days on the beaches of puerto rico.  i also booked my room for the wedding of one of my oldest and dearest friends.i’m tired of standing still…now its time to move forward and that’s exactly what i’ll be doing…moving forward and beginning my new year… til next time…besos babe