here’s a throwback i found and thought i would share with the group since we’ve been on the topic of commitment which isn’t a far leap to love and all the blessings & curses that come with…

How does simply hearing his voice cause so many sensations in my soul?

Soulmates?  Do I even believe in such a thing?

Once upon a time I did but that was back when I believed in happily ever afters…years ago when next lifetime translated to next relationship.

Now I’m stuck pondering next lifetime and last lifetime.  Do they even exist?

Is it possible that somewhere, somehow we are cosmically connected?  Insane thoughts as such sneak in when I feel from beyond my heart but rather from deep within my soul.

I feel, see, smell taste, live him there…yet here…on the train, having just hung up the phone…

I’m not even sure that I know him.  Every moment spent makes me yearn to know more.

Will he let me in?  Does he recognize me as I recognize him?  We’ve been here before.

First smile, first kiss, first touch, first taste.

No mistake that everything has its place.

Then why?  Why is there no way for me to explain that when I’m with him I’m intoxicated with completeness?

Almost to the point that when embraced I lose concept of where I begin and he ends.

But it ends.  We end.

I’m on the train and he’s on the other side of the phone.

If he took the time to look in my eyes would he see?

See the faces of our children and our children’s children as we grow old and prepare to be reunited in yet another lifetime because we are soulmates.

Do I believe in such a thing?  Or is this connection something I dreamed.

This feeling coming from deep but not my heart and soul but instead from my womanhood that he loves to hold?

Til next time…besos babe…

the Diva has been trying to get someone to tell her what makes a date a date.  sadly, nobody knows.  my best friend and i tried to define it after watching sex & the city the other night (the episode where carrie & big have their first date and end up having sex before technically going on the date).

i have some questions to make it clearer…let’s consider it a survey.  maybe after the research i’ll be closer to knowing what equates a date because right now i don’t really know what makes a date vs just hanging out with someone.  is it all dependent on the person doing the defining?  do both people have to communicate it being a date prior to the event?

 

What Equates a Date Survey: (Please answer in a comment below)

 

1.  Is it a date if the event is scheduled more than 24 hours in advance?

2.  If it is planned less than an hour in advance is it still a date?

3.  Is it a date if one person pays the bill?

4.  Is it a date if one person goes to spend time (ie. watching a movie, playing cards, etc.) at the other person’s house?

5.  Is it a date if the people go to a club or a lounge?

6.  Is it a date if all the people do is lay in bed watch tv and have sex?  What if they skip the tv portion of the evening?

7.  Is it a date if they go to a business or family function?

Those are all my questions for now…I’m sure I’ll have more but I’m still recovering from not sleeping this past weekend due  to working way too hard and not playing at all =-(

I am also watching the Wanda Sykes comedy special and planning my day tomorrow…I really need to find a way to slow my brain down so I can get some relaxation.  That’ll happen next week some time (maybe) this week I got too much to do…

Til next time…besos baby…