i’m not sure how it happened but somewhere along the lines i lost myself for a while.  i didn’t see it coming or realize it was happening.  i didn’t want it to happen and truthfully always thought i was above losing myself in another person…or was it for another person?
either …

i spent christmas eve crossing boroughs.  i went to my mom’s to drop off her gifts and then took the 3 hour tour to my dad’s.  i got there expecting to see my niece, nephew, lil cousin and baby brother creating havoc and causing chaos.  instead my nephew was the …